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ON SERVANT LEADERSHIP
(Part 3)
INTEGRITY
One of the most important
aspects of servant leadership is integrity. What is integrity? It is a
word often used, but superficially understood, and not so much
appreciated in its depth of meaning.
The dictionary defines it as "uprightness of character."
Another definition is "firm adherence to a code especially moral or
artistic values. Synonyms given are probity, incorruptibility and
honesty.
I would offer my own definition. Integrity is living the truth in word,
thought and deed.
For us to better appreciate the meaning of integrity, let me give some
instances that point to a lack of it. Here I do not speak of what is
obvious-such as dishonesty, corruption or moral failures. Rather, these
are instances that are committed even by supposedly renewed and
God-loving Christians, who are serving Him and the Church.
Speaking half-truths
Lying is a sin. In fact, since Satan is "the father of
lies" (Jn 8:44), one who is a liar exchanges his sonship under the
Father for that of Satan. But what is more diabolical is deliberately
speaking half-truths. This, in a way, is worse than an outright lie,
because it manipulates the truth, twisting it to one's own ends. Because
it is based on a truth, and on the surface might seem like the truth, it
becomes more deceptive, and can lead many people astray.
Let me give an example. There was a person who had attacked and betrayed
me who suddenly found himself sitting in a plane right beside me.
Throughout the 4-hour flight, he slept (or pretended to be asleep), not
eating nor taking a comfort break. When the plane landed, he bolted out
of his seat and closeted himself in the toilet, until all had
disembarked from the plane. It was obvious that he did not want to speak
to me, or felt ashamed to do so. Later, he made two claims that were
half-truths. One, he said I was seated beside him for 4 hours but did
not speak to him! Two, to another audience, he said it was evidence of
our friendship and continuing acquaintance that we were even seated
together in the plane.
On both occasions, he told the truth, that we were seated together and
that I did not speak to him (not wanting to bother him if he was truly
tired, I was waiting for him to wake so we could talk). But on both
occasions, he was lying, giving a false impression, deliberately
twisting the reality, misleading his listeners.
Truth is of God, as Jesus himself is the truth (Jn 14:6a). On the other
hand, lies are of the devil, who "is a liar" (Jn 8:44). To lie
is already a grave sin. To manipulate or use the truth in order to lie
is even graver.
Saying yes but doing no
Have you ever said yes to something but then did not follow through
and did not do what had been agreed on? Now I am not talking about
circumstances changing from the time you said yes to the time when you
were about to act on it. In such a case, we simply go back to the person
we had an agreement with, and work it out.
What makes it a failure in integrity?
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If you were just
saying yes, but in your heart and mind you had no intention of doing
what was agreed on.
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If you were just
saying yes in order to get the discussion over with, to set aside
all opposition, or to put closure to a contentious situation.
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If you were just
saying yes in order to lull the opposition to a false sense of
acceptance, but with the intent to ultimately get your own way.
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If you might have had
the intention to act, but later decided to renege, because this was
to your personal advantage.
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If you ignore or
maneuver your way out of what was agreed.
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If you put your own
interpretation on what was agreed and carry on accordingly, knowing
that it is different from the mind of the one with whom you agreed.
Saying yes but not
following through is worse than just saying no. With the latter, at
least the other party knows how you stand. With the former, the other
party is deluded into thinking all is well when all is not. And of
course, it adversely affects how things move forward, as seemingly
agreed on by the parties.
Jesus told the parable of the two sons (Mt 21:28-31a). The first said no
but then changed his mind and did what his father asked him. The second
said yes but did not go. The first did the father's will but the second
did not. Now consider this: if the first son had not changed his mind,
then he too would not have done his father's will. But the posture of
the second son would still have been worse, since he said yes but
reneged, since he in effect deceived his father, since by his yes his
father was not able to decide on an alternative so the work would be
done. The second son failed in integrity.
Being plastic
This is about being double-faced or hiding behind a mask. It is
saying one thing and meaning another. It is putting up false
appearances. It is living a lie.
Some examples of this are:
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Acting piously while
deliberately living sinfully. This is not to speak about the sins
that we all commit from time to time, even as we might not want to.
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Extolling people
while thinking ill of them or cursing them under your breath. This
does not refer to the courtesy and respect that we ought to accord
to people, because of their inherent dignity as children of God,
even if we do not get along with them. We should still be nice to
people we have problems with.
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Encouraging people to
Christian generosity while living selfishly.
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Embracing and patting
people on the back while planting a knife on their backs.
Another word for being
plastic is hypocrisy. It is not only pretending to be what one is not,
but it is worse than that. It is outright deception.
Jesus severely condemned the Pharisees and scribes for their hypocrisy (Lk
11:39ff). This was especially so because they were teachers of the law
and ought to have known better. Where much is given, much is expected.
Thus servant leaders are called to the highest order of integrity.
The opposite of being plastic is being authentic. So say what you mean,
and mean what you say. Live in the light and truth of God's ways.
Own agenda, not the Lord's
We are the Lord's servants. We serve His agenda. One who looks to a
personal or hidden agenda is one who lacks integrity.
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In what ways does one
serve his own agenda?
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Seeking power or
position, or looking to prestige or pay, in doing Christian service.
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Wanting to be
recognized or rewarded for one's service, and feeling resentful when
this does not happen.
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Making decisions not
for the good of the body but to consolidate one's position or to
build turf.
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Stealing money from
God. This includes outright theft as well as improper handling of
tithes and donations for Christian mission.
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Spending community
funds lavishly for one's own comfort for mission (travel,
accommodation, mission transport, food, etc.).
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Maligning others in
order to promote one's cause. This is especially grave when there is
no truth to what is being said.
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Having a political
agenda in helping the poor.
Jesus has already
instructed us how we are to serve Him. First we follow Him by denying
ourselves and taking up our cross daily (Lk 9:23). Then, when we go on
mission, we are to be "lean and mean," taking nothing
unnecessary and relying on the generosity of those we serve (Mt
10:9-11), being detached and completely reliant on God (Lk 9:3). This is
God's agenda, even for those wonderful souls who respond to His call to
service. This is how God wants mission and Christian work to be done. We
cannot insist on our own way of doing things. And worse, doing things
our own way while proclaiming that we allegedly are doing it for God.
Judas had his own agenda in following Jesus. Though he might have
genuinely been looking for the messiah, he was also a thief, helping
himself to the money contributed for Jesus' mission (Jn 12:6). He
compounded this sin by feigning righteousness and love for the poor,
complaining about the waste of costly perfumed oil used to anoint the
feet of Jesus (Jn 12:3-5).
Judas betrayed Jesus, accepting money from the chief priests (Lk
22:3-6). When Jesus spoke about his coming betrayal, Judas even feigned
innocence (Mt 26:21-25). This again compounded his failure in integrity.
Be forewarned. When we fail in integrity, sin will pile upon sin. We
will get deeper into the hole. When we have our own agenda, but hidden
within the context of our serving the Lord, we will continually be
lying, dishing half-truths, covering up, giving disinformation. We will
find ourselves in a spiral of deceit and deception that inevitably leads
to death.
To live in integrity is
to avoid the actions that rob us of our integrity, such as stated above.
However, integrity is not just about avoidance, but is about compliance.
It is complying with the way of God for us.
Integrity relates to the word integral, which denotes a situation of
being unimpaired, or wholeness, of soundness, of being undivided. This
is how God would have us.
In the end, integrity is
all about morality, living according to the truth of God and His ways.
In the end, integrity is all about righteousness and holiness. Such is
the way of God; such is the way to God.
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It is being preserved
in honesty and virtue (Ps 25:21a).
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It is walking without
blame (Ps 26:1a).
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It is the way by
which we can look to God's support and being allowed in His presence
forever (Ps 41:13).
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It is the only way we
can continue to serve God (Ps 101:6b).
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It is the way by
which we can assure happiness for our children (Prv 20:7).
Integrity has to do with
our relationship with God, and therefore, also with our relationship
with each other, especially within the context of community. Living the
truth of God's ways and His call to us as community, integrity is
essential for the proper functioning of the body.
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It is what truly
makes us brethren, open and loyal to one another.
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It is what enables
one to be a true and valuable team player, one in our common vision
and mission.
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It is what makes one
trustworthy, to whom others can entrust their very lives.
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It is what enables us
to be unique individuals with unique gifts, but who can be formed
into one body that God can truly use for His purposes.
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It is what supports
and strengthens one's faithfulness to covenant and the way of life
God has given us.
Eliphaz the Temanite said
to Job: "Is not your piety a source of confidence, and your
integrity of life your hope?" (Jb 4:6). The same is asked of us.
Let us realize that integrity of the highest order is the call to all
Christians, but especially to servant leaders.
Let us affirm our commitment to the kind of life God desires for us, so
we can look forward with hope, trusting only in Jesus.
"I follow the way of integrity;
I act with integrity of heart"
(Ps 101:2a,2c)
God bless you all.
February 10, 2009
